vrijdag 4 juli 2008

Wim's graduation and my ecape from the Insead bubble

July 3rd 2008 ... I don't think I will ever forget this day ... Wim is graduating!


It was weird going to this familiar campus and seeing all these people and their partners and parents. Even though you saw all these frowned faces of students feeling melancholic that the year had come to an end you could also see the faces of the proud parents, the sad faces of the partners who would miss the nanny's, lunches and kids picnics and then there were the faces like mine ... relieved that the moment to leave the bubble and return to 'real life' had arrived :-) (and also proud of my partner of course ;-) !!!)
But of course the happy moment of returning to reality was delayed slightly by a three-hour ceremony where we had to listen to speeches that claimed all MBA's were special, they would make it in life, they were the future ... probably pretty painful to listen to for the 1/4th of the students that didn't find a job yet ... then a speaker came to explain us about ... well euhm I remember it was something about Finance ... the rest of the speech I was in a near comatose condition caused by his boring voice and overly articulate English accent. All this was wrapped up with the calling of about 400 names ... of each student who graduated and they also needed to be photographed with the Dean. But thèn ... after thinking you would either get a lumbago from sitting on the chair too long or melting away on it ... it was all over and done with and time for cocktails :-)
Good to see everyone again ... the smalltalk truly didn't take any effort at all :-)
Afterwards we went to diner with Wim's parents to Barbizon ... nice restaurant ... all full of students and parents who also did not want to eat in a restaurant without a Michelin star ;-)

The food was nice but not as nice as the bill afterwards would make you think.

After this there was the ultimate, final, last ever party ... we enjoyed the free flow of Champagne and drinks and had a great time.

We woke up as you should after having a great time at a party like this ... still tired from the few hours of sleep and with a mild hangover.



It was only in the afternoon that it hit me ... in the past 6 months that I have been on this stretched holiday I have met some great people. Ellie left us too soon ... we still miss her every time we're out ... and now the other people will also soon return to their parts of the world. Time will tell but I hope to see each of these wonderful people again many times in the future ... I hope we'll always keep contact and I hope the Insead-partner-experience-bond will always be there. All the times I've cursed about not having a job, not feeling of importance and many other things I nagged about all seem worth it if I think of all the wonderful ladies I have met during this year :-) sounds corny but I mean it 100%


Marrakesh

Since we thought the Insead graduation trip was a bit expensive for what it was (and we weren't the only ones with this opinion) me & Alice decided to take our guys to Marrakesh for a few days.
What did we learn from this experience: never believe an airline that says "any identification - as long as it has a photograph" is sufficient ... the result was pretty disappointing: we had to leave Alice and Jon behind in Charles de Gaulle :-(

After a delay of about 2 hours we arrived in Marrakesh in Riad La Maison Rouge. It was this small riad with fifteen rooms, all very cosy. You couldn't lock any of the doors there and if you were thirsty (which happened a lot in temperatures of 48°C) you could just take anything from the fridge and write it down on a piece of paper.


The day after we arrived we explored Marrakesh. Everything was walking distance from the hotel that was in the old part of town, but in this heat we decided to take a day ticket on this open-roof tourist bus.

I was really surprised: I never expected that Marrakesh would still be thàt poor. After visiting Asia we thought we would not easily be surprised anymore by poverty etc ... but here we were ... people still transporting food by mule and carriage and the cars and the taxis there were even worse than the ones we saw in Thailand or Cambodia.


We visited the main must-sees of Marrakesh like the El Bahia Palace, Jardin Majorelle, Koutoubia Mosque, Djemaa el-Fna-square, etc.


The food was also great ... we had this great discovery meal on this rooftop terrace ... they just kept on bringing the little tajines pots for hours :-)

The last day we were all sweated out in the burning sun and awful heat and we decided to spend our last hours by the tiny little rooftop pool.




We had a good flight back and when we arrived back in Charles de Gaulle at around midnight they noticed that all the staff in charge of passport control had already left ... so of course they decided to make us wait until they came back.
The trip started bad with Jon and Alice who couldn't join us and ended funny in Charles de Gaulle without the right staff to let us out of the airport building ... but in between Marrakesh was really beautiful and worth visiting.